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WHEN PARENTS FAIL.

WHEN PARENTS FAIL – HOW LACK OF DISCIPLINE IS CREATING A GENERATION OF LOST SOULS

 

There was a time when parents raised warriors. Now, they raise weaklings.

 

A time when children feared their fathers’ discipline. Now, children insult their fathers online.

 

A time when a slap from your mother could reset your entire future. Now, mothers watch their children twerk for clout.

 

The world changed—not because evil became more powerful, but because parents became weaker.

 

Children no longer have boundaries. No fear. No respect. No discipline.

 

And the result?

 

A generation that mocks God, worships vanity, and embraces sin with pride.

 

BRUTAL THREAD:

 

1. CHILDREN WITHOUT DISCIPLINE BECOME ADULTS WITHOUT SELF-CONTROL

 

A child who never hears “NO” at home will hear “NO” from life when it’s too late.

 

The boy who was never told to control his desires will become a man addicted to sex, gambling, and laziness.

 

The girl who was never told to respect herself will become a woman who exposes her body for money and attention.

 

The child who was never corrected for lying will become an adult who deceives, manipulates, and steals.

 

If parents don’t discipline their children, the world will punish them later.

 

2. THE FALL OF FAMILY VALUES IS THE RISE OF MORAL DECAY

 

What happened to parenting?

 

Mothers used to teach daughters how to be women of dignity. Now, they encourage them to “secure the bag” by any means.

 

Fathers used to teach sons how to be responsible men. Now, they are absent—either too weak, too distracted, or too scared to lead.

 

So children are now learning from TikTok instead of home, and the internet is raising a generation with no fear of God and no sense of direction.

 

3. PARENTS WHO SPOIL THEIR CHILDREN ARE DESTROYING THEM

 

Giving your child everything they want is the fastest way to ruin them.

 

A child who never worked for anything will grow up lazy and entitled.

 

A child who was never disciplined will grow up thinking life has no consequences.

 

A child who was never corrected will grow up believing they can do anything and get away with it.

 

Now, we have a world full of adults who can’t handle rejection, can’t handle failure, and can’t handle life.

 

4. WHEN PARENTS CHOOSE FRIENDSHIP OVER LEADERSHIP, CHAOS FOLLOWS

 

Many parents today want to be their child’s friend instead of their leader.

 

So instead of saying:

❌ “This behavior is wrong!” They say, “She’s just expressing herself.”

❌ “You must work for what you want!” They say, “Let me buy it for you.”

❌ “This is not acceptable!” They say, “I don’t want to hurt their feelings.”

 

And just like that, we have a generation of weak people who cry over small problems and break down when life gets tough.

 

5. THE NEW GENERATION LOVES PLEASURE BUT HATES RESPONSIBILITY

 

Discipline used to be normal.

 

Now, a child calls it “abuse” when a parent corrects them.

 

Now, teachers can’t discipline students because “it’s too harsh.”

 

Now, young people demand freedom but reject accountability.

 

Everyone wants to enjoy but no one wants to work.

 

And this is why:

 

The streets are full of lazy men chasing quick money.

 

Social media is full of young girls selling their bodies for attention.

 

Homes are full of broken families because nobody was raised to be a good partner or parent.

 

6. WHEN CHILDREN LOSE DISCIPLINE, THEY LOSE THEIR FUTURE

 

Many young men today are addicted to masturbation, pornography, and cheap pleasure—because nobody taught them self-control.

 

Many young women today expose their bodies for social media likes—because nobody taught them self-respect.

 

Many young people today are broke, weak, and mentally unstable—because nobody taught them how to survive hardship.

 

The devil is not the problem. The parents failed.

 

7. IF WE DON’T FIX PARENTING, THE WORLD WILL GET WORSE

 

If we continue like this, the next generation will:

⚠️ Have no morals.

⚠️ Have no work ethic.

⚠️ Have no fear of God.

 

And society will collapse—not because of demons, but because of poor parenting.

 

BOTTOM LINE:

 

If you are a parent, discipline your children.

If you are young, discipline yourself.

 

Because the world will not be kind to those who were raised without discipline.

 

Let’s raise warriors, not weaklings.

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