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FACTORS NECESSARY FOR MAINTAINING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS DESPITE DISTRACTIONS. by Jane Olowohunwa

FACTORS NECESSARY FOR MAINTAINING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS DESPITE DISTRACTIONS.

 

To maintain your relationship despite life’s distractions, prioritize consistent, open communication, such as daily check-ins and active listening, to foster trust and understanding. Schedule dedicated, screen-free quality time, like weekly date nights or shared rituals, to strengthen your emotional connection.

 

Express regular appreciation, practice forgiveness, support each other’s personal growth, and set boundaries, especially with digital distractions, to keep your relationship strong.

 

FOSTER STRONG COMMUNICATION:

Daily Check-ins:

Set aside a few minutes each day to share your thoughts and feelings openly.

Active Listening:

Focus intently on what your partner is saying, ask clarifying questions, and reflect on their words to ensure you understand.

“I” Statements:

Use “I” statements to express your feelings and experiences without blaming your partner, fostering a safe and trusting environment.

 

CREATE QUALITY TIME:

Scheduled Dates:

Make a weekly date night a priority, even if it’s a simple activity at home, to reconnect and build memories.

Shared Rituals:

Develop shared rituals, such as a specific morning routine or a shared hobby, to create a sense of connection.

Screen-Free Moments:

Designate tech-free times, like meals or an hour before bed, to engage in deeper conversations and emotional connections.

 

CULTIVATE A POSITIVE ATMOSPHERE:

Express Appreciation:

Regularly give compliments and express gratitude to your partner, as these small positive gestures fill a reservoir of good feelings.

Practice Forgiveness:

Work on forgiving each other for mistakes and letting go of negative moments to keep the relationship intact.

Support Personal Growth:

Be a supportive partner in each other’s individual pursuits and personal growth, strengthening the relationship as a whole.

 

SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES:

Limit Digital Distractions:

Be mindful of how phones and other devices can become distractions, and set firm boundaries around their use to be more present with each other.

Manage Expectations:

Recognize that relationships require ongoing effort and maintenance, similar to a car that needs regular service, to stay strong.

 

SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP:

If you’re struggling to overcome challenges, don’t hesitate to seek professional guidance from a therapist or marriage counsellor.

 

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