THE MANIPULATIVE SPOUSE.
Manipulative spouses try to control things by ensuring you look bad to others.
To you, there could be things you are covering for them to protect their image but they will always take the opportunity to make you look bad.
Anybody that’s capable of being there for you is suddenly a threat they have to discredit because they need to keep the truth away and continue to make you look like the bad one.
Unfortunately, because you still respect and cherish the sanctity of your marriage, you’d continue to keep the truth, believing you are doing what’s best whereas this is the very thing they capitalise on.
At some point, as difficult as it may seem, you will need to stand up for yourself if this manipulation is to ever stop.
Of course this will be resisted but all you need to be true to is your conscience.
A manipulative spouse needs you isolated, rejected and not liked by anyone their whole game plan rests on it.
Please speak up,you are an entity, marriage should not hold your voice, don’t keep hurting your heart because you want to please your manipulative spouse.
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