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SAY IT WHEN IT IS COOKED !!!

SAY IT WHEN IT IS COOKED !!!

 

Many people don’t realize that their biggest challenge is their own mouth.

 

Yes, the inability to stay quiet at the right time has cost people opportunities, relationships, and even divine breakthroughs.

 

But please, don’t be in a hurry to assume you know what I’m talking about, just follow me closely.

 

Some of you, the very day your relationship started having issues was the day you made up your mind to share every detail about it with your friends.

 

You were excited, yes! You wanted people to know, and you trusted them with your story. But what happened next?

 

Suddenly, they started giving you advice that planted seeds of doubt. Be careful who you listen to my friend.

 

Before then, you trusted your partner. You spoke well about them. You had peace.

 

Then someone told you to be careful. Another said, “Don’t trust too quickly.” Is that not so?

 

Before you knew it, you started second guessing their words and overanalyzing actions.

 

You started seeing things that weren’t there. And how did it end? You already know.

 

It doesn’t always have to be witchcraft.

 

Sometimes, it’s just that you exposed God’s plans too early, and the enemy, who works through people, sabotaged it before it could manifest.

 

Do you know what the bible says about things like this?

 

“Study to be quiet…”

 

Some of you have no control over your tongue, and that’s your real problem.

 

The moment someone promises to help you, you pull out your phone and start spreading the news.

 

Before anything even happens, you’ve told everyone. Haven’t you noticed that most times, those promises never materialize?

 

Someone tells you they are interested in you, and if God wills, they’d love to marry you. That’s good news isn’t it?

 

Instead of keeping it between you and God while watching things unfold, you go around broadcasting it like breaking news. Why won’t the relationship break?

 

The last time you did that, it ended in tears. It happened again, it ended in frustration, and still, you haven’t learned.

 

When will you learn?

 

Instead of sharing your plans, why not share testimonies?

 

It’s better and wiser to share what has happened than what might happen. Am I communicating?

 

Until it’s done, tell none!

 

That’s the rule of thumb, don’t spill too much details, it’s not necessary.

 

People can’t destroy what they don’t know exists. Are you getting the point?

 

Now, I’m not saying you should hide your relationship like a thief in the night. No. But you must learn the wisdom of discretion.

 

It’s about having the wisdom to give people news in brief, headlines only, if necessary.

 

Not every detail is for public consumption, especially when the story is still cooking.

 

Some of you make it too easy for the enemy. We just have to check your status updates to know when you’re having issues with your partner.

 

You’re so predictable that the enemy doesn’t need extra effort to attack your relationship.

 

Did you know?

 

Even Jesus, after performing certain miracles, He told the people not to tell anyone yet. Not because He was hiding, but because He understood timing.

 

There is a time to speak and a time to remain silent.

 

Learn from this and keep quiet until the testimony is fully formed. Let your results announce themselves.

 

Not every good thing in your life needs an audience.

 

Your relationship, your plans, and your breakthroughs, guard them!

 

Scripture says: “A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back” – Proverbs 29:11.

 

You’re not a fool, so until it’s done, tell no one!

 

But when it is done share it,talk about it and appreciate God for it.

 

Hope you understand?

 

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